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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 4:58 am    Post subject: Seeing it all Reply with quote

I've posed this question before, but there's a twist.

Right now I’m sharing my room with my cousin, who’s in high school. I’m usually a lot more modest than she is - I’m definitely not comfortable being naked in front of her, although she has no problem with me seeing her. Anyway, last night she was already asleep when I took a shower, so I came back into our room with only a towel on. I dropped the towel and was rummaging through my drawer in the dark looking for something to sleep in when the light came on! I screamed and grabbed my towel, holding it up in front of me. Emily rolled her eyes and told me to get over it.

I asked her if she had been watching me the whole time and she said yes, why? She said I have a nice body and shouldn’t be embarrassed for people to see it, especially another girl. “I’ve been wondering what you look like naked,” she admitted, smiling. “Can I see again?” Something about her voice made me feel more at ease and I let the towel fall again, feeling self-conscious but excited as she looked me up and down. I sat down on her bed beside her and she touched me, first on the shoulder, then her fingers slipped down to…..

Okay, I made the second paragraph up. But about the first paragraph, how comfortable are you with other people seeing you naked, especially people of the same sex? How comfortable are you seeing other people of the same sex? I know that in locker rooms, some people stay in their underwear as long as possible and others have no problem walking around completely naked in front of everyone. Same thing with changing in front of someone else. How do you feel?
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 5:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Laughing Wendy <3

I very much dislike showing my body off in any public situation, the furthest I can get to showing my body off infront of friends or family is a tank top or shorts.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 6:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Naughty!

I'm not really fussed. When changing I only draw the curtains or back away from the window if I think other people would care. I don't mind being naked in a changing room, but neither do I strut around. I'm there to change; I change. In the middle of the night, I'll go to my flat's kitchen naked if I've been naked already, but only if other people are unlikely to be around. Again, it's for them more than me.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 7:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Can you continue the second paragraph please.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 9:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have no problem being naked in front of others. It may be because I grew up in a family that were nudist or that I spent 12 years in the army, which forced you to shower and change in front of others.

Only you can decide what is comfortable for you.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 9:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

hahaha

umm i'm not confortable being completely naked in front of anyone. but i'm comfortable changing in front of anyone as long as i have underwear on. i change all the time in front of friends. it doesn't matter they're just friends. i'm also comfortable around my cousins. for some reason though i'm not comfortable changing in front of my brother or sister. i don't know why cause i'm completely fine with everyone else. but my siblings... i just feel like i shouldn't??
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 10:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i really wish people at my gym would put some damn clothes on. or at least put some underwear on before they bend over!! i think vaginas are repulsive so i dont really want to get an eyeful of theirs! however i really dont mind myself or others being in their underwear, especially if they have got a great body to flaunt! im more confident now than i used to be, but other than my boyfriend i wouldnt be comfortable fully naked with someone. there are some things which really dont have to be shared with friends!
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 12:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I never liked showing myself naked in front of anyone even in the locker room i was always the girl that hurried up and took my shower and than off to the stales to get dressed.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 8:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am a nudist, so when in that setting, it does not bother me.
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 1:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm pretty modest about my body, so I don't like to really change in front of any1 except my fiance.

And Wendy! That was awesome! <3
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 4:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am a nudist so the answer is pretty obvious.
I believe nudity is not crude or rude - sometimes its not very attractive if the person is aged and/or overweight and I believe it is healthy in mind and body.
I first realised I enjoyed nudity at 13 (puberty) and had many discussions regarding the fact I had no problems with it. It was accepted at home following a few discussions. The main concern then was the use of tampons at that age.
Boys and some girls (at the same age)at first behaved what I considered badly when they saw or heard of my exploits when skinny dipping and in locker rooms.
I have many friends now who share my desire and many join me at recognised nudist venues.
I believe most people enjoy sex naked so it seems acceptable then.
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 11, 2009 12:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If ur hot, show it off, if ur not hide it. Sometimes I go to the gym and I go to my locker room and there would be 65 yr old naked men walking around making me feel uncomfortable as hell!
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 11, 2009 1:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm a swimmer so I'm comfortable showing off up to a swim suit area but that's it. I don't like my body (but really ... not a lot of people do) so I would prefer not to have people see. Although I'm getting better at not being so self conscious in front of my boyfriend Razz
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 11, 2009 4:56 pm    Post subject: Re: Seeing it all Reply with quote

PopStar9 wrote:
I've posed this question before, but there's a twist.

Right now I’m sharing my room with my cousin, who’s in high school. I’m usually a lot more modest than she is - I’m definitely not comfortable being naked in front of her, although she has no problem with me seeing her. Anyway, last night she was already asleep when I took a shower, so I came back into our room with only a towel on. I dropped the towel and was rummaging through my drawer in the dark looking for something to sleep in when the light came on! I screamed and grabbed my towel, holding it up in front of me. Emily rolled her eyes and told me to get over it.

I asked her if she had been watching me the whole time and she said yes, why? She said I have a nice body and shouldn’t be embarrassed for people to see it, especially another girl. “I’ve been wondering what you look like naked,” she admitted, smiling. “Can I see again?” Something about her voice made me feel more at ease and I let the towel fall again, feeling self-conscious but excited as she looked me up and down. I sat down on her bed beside her and she touched me, first on the shoulder, then her fingers slipped down to…..

Okay, I made the second paragraph up. But about the first paragraph, how comfortable are you with other people seeing you naked, especially people of the same sex? How comfortable are you seeing other people of the same sex? I know that in locker rooms, some people stay in their underwear as long as possible and others have no problem walking around completely naked in front of everyone. Same thing with changing in front of someone else. How do you feel?


I'd be more at ease changing in front of women than other men. (generally, unless I'm fat at that time. I cycle weight sometimes.)

The thing that bothers me the most about myself is by "backne."

Part of it might be that I would get a kick if they looked at all. If they didn't, that's fine too because is respect. Though, I definitely wouldn't want to offend anyone.

Changing in front of guys is gay.
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 11, 2009 8:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't mind getting changed in front of other people if i have my underwear still on but I'd hate to get naked in front of...well, anyone actually. I think it's a confidence issue... and me generally being insecure and unhappy with how i look!
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